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I’ve been known to write a few emotional posts, I am also known to get emotional while writing these posts, so Kleenex® for the win! Today, I’m talking about my heroes (because I couldn’t choose only one hero) as part of #HonoringOurHeroes. Yes, there is Kleenex on hand. Thank you, Fred Meyer. 🙂
My Dad, My Hero
I have many heroes in my life. They are people who have shown me immense amounts of love, perseverance, and strength. When I was a little girl my dad was my hero, I thought my dad was a real life action figure. 🙂 He was unquestionably muscular, strong, short, and he wore a uniform. I remember thinking how tough he was and how secure I felt with him around, especially when I was dangling from his arm as he flexed it. (My dad would let us line up to swing on his arm while he flexed!) I owe the fire inside of me to him, I know my never quit attitude comes from him. 🙂 Thanks, Dad! 🙂
My Mom, My Hero
My mom was just as tough every time our real life action figure/hero left home on deployment. I especially thought my mom was tenacious when my dad shipped off to war. Even when there were piles of crumpled up Kleenex® on her bed while she wrote ten page letters to my dad while watching the war live on CNN, she was strong to me. She was tough through tears and fear. She held our family together, made sure we did good in school, took us to our sports activities, and she still made it to work every day (weekends off 🙂 ).
Once I was at the PX with a friend, we were talking about our futures and I said, “I don’t think I want to marry a soldier, it’s a hard life.” But you know as much as I do, love is love and love conquers all. I fell hard for a soldier from Ohio. He was handsome, strong, kind, and he looked HOT in his uniform. 🙂 (I did not meet him in his uniform, but when I first saw him in his uniform I got weak in the knees. To be honest I still do every day- no uniform needed.) We fell in love, he got out of the Army, we got married, we had a baby, and then he joined the Army again– September 2002.
History Would Repeat Itself
History would repeat itself, I became the devoted wife crying with crumpled up Kleenex® surrounding me while I watched the news of the war. I had a slight modification to my story, because for me not only was my husband shipped off to war, but my sister from another mister (another hero) was deployed, too. When you’re a military family Kleenex® Brand is a staple in your home during deployment, not only for sad tears but happy tears too.
My husband and I were lucky that he was part of communications, I was able to speak to him often. We would cry and laugh over the phone often; something my mom didn’t get to do when my dad was at war. I truly appreciate my mom, my hero. She did what I was doing, but she did it with four kids and for way longer. My dad served 22 years in the Army, my mom was by his side for almost all of it. My husband did 8, I was there for some of it. They say military spouses are the backbone of the Army, my mom was certainly ours.
My Husband, My Hero… Our HERO
My husband, is our hero. While he was deployed, we always felt his love. He wrote us letters, sent us sweet pictures, and kept me laughing. He showed me as much support as he could while he was away. I knew I could always count on him to cheer me up regardless of the distance that stood between us. When he was deployed to Iraq I purchased a recliner for him, my daughter wouldn’t let ANYONE sit in it. She filled that chair with drawings she drew for him almost every day. She kissed his picture every morning when she woke up and every night before bed. By the time my husband returned from Iraq that picture frame was all sticky with love. 😀
One of the first things my husband did when he got home: he sat in his chair and read his chair mail. That’s who he is, always making things about others, even on his first day home.
He has been my biggest cheerleader, my “bestest” friend ever, and the world’s greatest papa to our three babies. I am lucky that he is my partner on this journey called parenthood. He is always there to sign up to do the extras for the kids and if I need help he’s always there for me. When I’ve felt like I’m falling apart, he has always been there to help me piece it all back together. He is my hero. (A little late, but Happy Father’s Day, babe! I love you!)
Those Who Support Our Military, My Heroes 🙂
Thank you, Kleenex, Kroger and Fred Meyer for giving me the opportunity to highlight a few of my heroes today. I gladly support companies who give back to our military and partner with the USO. The USO was there to welcome home my husband and his unit, which meant a lot to me, and of course to him. When you purchase one Kleenex® Facial Tissue 4-pack bundle from your local Fred Meyer or other Kroger stores they will along with Kleenex® Brand donate one pocket pack to the USO.
Also, there are 13 giveaways, one from each Kroger family of stores, with a prize valued at up to $100! You can enter the giveaway by sharing your “Hero Story” on social media tagging your “Hero Story” with Krogers’ hashtag #HonoringOurHeroes. If you would like to learn more about honoring our heroes, please visit the Honoring Our Heroes Website.
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karen
June 20, 2016 at 2:03 pmAw…love this post! Your husband sounds like an incredible soul! So great to remember the reasons why people in our lives are our heroes. Good to have the Kleenex on hand, for sure!
Karen | GlamKaren.com
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 12:12 pmThank you, Karen. He’s one amazing man, I got lucky to find my soulmate at 20. 🙂
😀 I always have Kleenex on hand, I’m an emotional gal. ANNNNDDD… my kids have allergies. 😀
Thanks for your lovely comment.
XO
Terri Steffes
June 20, 2016 at 3:37 pmLove the post. I truly believe in honoring our heroes, those who are in our family, serving our country, do an unexpected good deed, so many ways! Thanks for the beautiful post!
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:28 pmThank you, Terri! I sincerely appreciate your kind words. 🙂
XOXO
Eva / Kid Minds
June 20, 2016 at 5:05 pmIt must have been so hard having your husband AND your sister deployed at the same time! Military spouses are heroes too! And all military families deserve to be honored!
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:30 pmIt was tough, I was worried about them both. Technically, she’s not my sister, but growing up it felt like she was my sister. 🙂
Military families totally deserve to be honored. I’m so thankful to them and our troops. 🙂
XOXO
Akaleistar
June 20, 2016 at 8:31 pmThis post is beautiful! Hooray for all the Heroes in your life! I love it when companies work with the USO 🙂
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:33 pmThank you, Ashley! 🙂
I love when companies work with the USO too. When my husband was deployed to Iraq the USO sent over quite a few entertainers. The USO also threw a Welcome Home Bash for all the troops when we lived in Ft. Hood. 🙂
XOXO
Rachel Langer
June 20, 2016 at 10:38 pmThis is a beautiful story. History does repeat itself, doesn’t it? Sounds like your mom was a wonderful role model for you and prepared you for your own military life – without you even knowing it back then!
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:35 pmYou’re right! I didn’t even think of it that way, but she truly was/is a great role model to look up to for sure. 🙂 Thank you for your kind comment. 🙂
XOXO
Amanda Love
June 21, 2016 at 12:04 amAwww I just love your story. Being a military family myself I totally get it with the Kleenex. I remember when I first left my family I cried almost everyday. It’s not just the families we leave behind that cry, but the soldiers themselves get teary-eyed and Kleenex is always there to the rescue.
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:38 pmYes! I am in awe of you and all the soldiers who go so far away from home to protect us. Thank you! It had to be tough. From a military wife/child’s perspective it was hard and Kleenex kind of becomes your best friend. I remember the day my husband left to Iraq, the bus took them too early, so the driver brought them back to the gym. We were puzzled, and honestly I think a little excited. Change of mind? But no. I had to say goodbye to my husband twice in one day.
XOXO
Ana
June 21, 2016 at 3:18 amAw your dad sounds wonderful and what brave citizens your dad, husband, and sister are to serve the army. It must be scary watching the news when they are away.
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:39 pmIt was hard. I didn’t like it. I am so lucky to have them all in my life.
Thanks for stopping by, Ana.
xo
Wendy
June 21, 2016 at 9:35 amWhat a great story! Sounds like you are a hero too. I can’t imagine having family deployed while keeping up with all of the demands of parenting and running a home. You have an amazing family.
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:41 pmME?!? Oh gee, I don’t know about that. Just a mom/wife/friend/daughter doing what any other person would do in my shoes. 🙂 I truly appreciate that though, thank you!!
You made my day.
XOXO
Rose Sahetapy
June 21, 2016 at 2:49 pmBeautiful…beautiful story! Military men and women are the heroes as well as their family. How sweet is that… your daughter draws and wrote the mails everyday for her Dad, and your husband read the mails the first day he arrived. I love and enjoy your writing.
MrsA0K2001
June 21, 2016 at 4:46 pmThank you, Rose!! You are too kind!
She was the happiest little girl in the world sitting on her papa’s lap showing him all of her artwork for him. Then after that he got cleaned up, we put on Christmas pajamas and we had Christmas together in February. 🙂
XOXO
Heather
June 21, 2016 at 7:03 pmThis is the sweetest post ever! Yes, bring on the kleenex! I definitely think my mom is my hero – such a strong lady who raised my brother and I by herself.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:27 pmThank you, Heather. ?
Single moms are super heroes for sure!
XOXO
CourtneyLynne
June 21, 2016 at 7:58 pmOmg what a touching post!!! Your hubby sounds like a true hero. Thank you to him and your sister for serving 🙂
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:28 pmThank you, Courtney. ?
Debra
June 21, 2016 at 7:58 pmWhat an amazing post! I think we need to add you to the list of heroes! What a sweet story of your family!
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:28 pmAww thank you, Debra! I’m not sure if I belong on the list, but o truly appreciate that. ?
XO
Tamara
June 21, 2016 at 10:01 pmAhh, so touching. I love this so much. And I have a big box of Kleenex next to me right now. I’ve needed them a lot lately!
My heroes? My mom and sister!
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:29 pmSending you hugs, Tamara!
Louise Bishop
June 21, 2016 at 11:15 pmHow awesome that they donate tissues!! It’s also pretty awesome that you had such wonderful parents that they are BOTH listed as your top heroes. I am glad you are continuing in their footsteps and that you and your husband are building that kind of life for your child!
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:31 pmThank you for your sweet comment, Louise. ?
I totally appreciate that Kleenex donates tissues, too.
XO
Reesa Lewandowski
June 21, 2016 at 11:21 pmWe are a navy family, so after a few deployments I SO know why those boxes of tissues are needed before, during and after their gone!
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:33 pmYes!
Wishing you all the best, and thank you for your family’s service.
XO
Megan McCoig
June 22, 2016 at 6:08 amThis is such a lovely post reflecting upon those who you really care about and who you look up to. Thanks for sharing
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 9:34 pmThank you for your kind comment, Megan.
XO
Bev
June 22, 2016 at 6:17 amOh wow, this just melts my heart. I knew your husband was in the military, but I didn’t realize where he was deployed. I can’t even imagine what that must have been like for you or him. Thank you for sharing this!
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:38 pmHe went to Korea too, but that wasn’t as tough as Iraq. I hated that deployment.
XOXO
Becca Wilson
June 22, 2016 at 7:45 amI love this post! Honoring heroes to me is so important. I can’t imagine what a family with a deployment goes through.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:39 pmThank you, Becca.
Deployments are hard, but thankfully my family was nearby. Most military spouses do not have that luxury as we are moved all around.
XO
Toughcookiemommy
June 22, 2016 at 10:46 amI think it is wonderful how you look up to your dad as your hero. It’s so important to have positive male role models during your childhood.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:40 pmI agree! I’m so thankful my babies have a positive male role model in my husband. 🙂
XO
LaKita
June 22, 2016 at 1:23 pmSuch a lovely post!! Deployments are very long and hard and a box Kleenex is always needed.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:41 pmThank you, LaKita. 🙂
Yes, Kleenex for the win always during deployments.
XO
Sonya
June 22, 2016 at 4:07 pmYou have some great heros in your life. I have a lot of respect for military families.
My mom is my hero, she is a great example of what it takes to be a great mom.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:42 pmYour mom sounds amazing! I love how she supports you and encourages you. 🙂
XO
Mandy
June 22, 2016 at 7:25 pmYou and your family are so wonderful! It can’t be easy always missing the people you love, but I think you’re definitely a hero too, just like your mother.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:42 pmTHANK YOU, MANDY!!! That’s so sweet of you to say. 🙂
XOXO
Stacey
June 22, 2016 at 10:53 pmThis is a beautiful post!! You have a lot of people to be proud of. Thank your husband for his serivce, I appreciate him.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:43 pmThank you, Stacey! I appreciate that! 🙂
XO
Blythe A.
June 23, 2016 at 3:35 pmSuch a great post. I love getting a glimpse into other families lives, especially those who dedicate their lives to serving our country. You have a lot of great heroes in your life. I would also consider my parents my heroes. They showed me what it’s like to build something from nothing.
MrsA0K2001
June 24, 2016 at 11:44 pmThose are the best role models to have. My dad is certainly one of those guys that didn’t come from much but boy did he pave a way for his kids. 🙂
Cheers to our parents, our heroes!
XO
Michelle
June 25, 2016 at 7:31 amThis. This brought tears to my eyes. I have to get my Kleenex (with lotion). You have much to be proud of and what an example to your children. Thank you to all your family members and their spouses for keeping our country safe and free. Salute! Will be sharing this on FB as my pick of the day from Party at My Place.
MrsA0K2001
June 28, 2016 at 1:07 amThank you, Michelle!! I have to admit… I cried quite a few times writing this post, the Kleenex certainly was needed. We (military families/ families of veterans) appreciate the love & support. Thank you! XO
Lucy Valdez
June 27, 2016 at 9:44 amIt is so hard to pinpoint just one person…I love how you highlight everyone and how deeply they have contributed to your life. Beautiful <3
MrsA0K2001
June 28, 2016 at 1:38 amThank you, Lucy! I’m a lucky lady with a pretty awesome family, as I’m sure you are too. 🙂
Wishing you a beautiful week!
XO